Skip to content

New: practical guides to visas, work and everyday life in Japan

N4 Grammar Lesson 12

Reasons and excuses: 〜ので, 〜のに, 〜けど and 〜し

Give reasons politely with 〜ので, show surprise or disappointment with 〜のに, soften what you say with 〜けど and 〜が, list several reasons with 〜し — and call work when your train stops, with the kanji 用, 悪, 止, 通 and 道.

In this lesson you will

  • Give a reason politely with 〜ので (なので after nouns and な-adjectives)
  • Say “although” with 〜のに and know when it sounds like a complaint
  • Use 〜けど and 〜が to say “but” and to soften a request
  • Give several reasons with 〜し、〜し
  • Call your workplace to say you will be late and ask for time off
  • Read and write 用, 悪, 止, 通 and 道

Trains in Japan are punctual, but they do stop sometimes — because of an accident, a signal problem, heavy rain or snow. When that happens on your way to work, you need to call and explain. In this lesson you learn the polite way to give reasons (〜ので), how to say “although” (〜のに), how to soften a sentence (〜けど, 〜が) and how to give several reasons at once (〜し).

Polite reasons: 〜ので

Plain form + ので gives a reason: 電車が止まったので、遅おくれます — “The train has stopped, so I’ll be late.” After a noun or a な-adjective, use なので: 雨なので, ひまなので. ので means the same as から (N5 lesson 16), but it sounds softer and more objective — the right choice for excuses and requests to a manager.

Point〜から〜ので
Feeldirect, personalsofter, more objective
Verb止まったから止まったので
い-adjective悪いから悪いので
Noun / な-adj.雨だから雨なので
Good forfriends, your own opinionmanagers, customers, excuses

In very polite speech you will also hear the polite form before ので: 電車が止まりましたので. Recognise it; the plain form is always correct.

Although: 〜のに

Plain form + のに means “although, even though”: the result is not what you expected, and the speaker often sounds disappointed or surprised. 急いだのに、間まに合あいませんでした — “Although I hurried, I didn’t make it.” 日曜日なのに、仕事です — “It’s Sunday, but I have to work.” After a noun or a な-adjective, use なのに.

Don’t use のに for your own excuse to a manager. 電車が止まったのに… sounds like a complaint. For reasons, use ので.

But, and softening: 〜けど and 〜が

けど (casual) and が (polite) join two ideas that contrast: この店は高いですが、おいしいです. They also soften the start of a request or a question, often after 〜んです (lesson 5): すみません、用事があるんですが、早はやく帰ってもいいですか. Very often the request is left unsaid: あのう、ちょっと具合ぐあいが悪いんですけど… — the listener understands.

Several reasons: 〜し、〜し

Plain form + し lists reasons and suggests there are more: この道は暗くらいし、車も多おおいし、夜は歩かないほうがいいです — “This road is dark, there’s a lot of traffic, (and so on,) so you’d better not walk here at night.” も often appears with し. One し is enough when the other reasons are obvious: 具合ぐあいも悪いし、きょうは休みます.

When the train stops

You may hear or readMeaning
電車が止まっていますthe trains have stopped
運転うんてんを見合みあわせていますservices are suspended (formal)
信号しんごうの故障こしょうのためbecause of a signal failure
大雨おおあめのためbecause of heavy rain
運転再開うんてんさいかいservices restarting
遅延証明書ちえんしょうめいしょdelay certificate (proof that your train was late)

Many railways hand out a delay certificate at the station or let you print one from their website. Some workplaces ask for it, so ask on your first day what to do when the train is late.

Calling work

An original example — a call to the leader before an early shift:

グエン:おはようございます、グエンです。すみません、電車が止まったので、三十分ぐらい遅おくれます。
リーダー:分かりました。気をつけて来てください。
グエン:はい。駅で遅延証明書ちえんしょうめいしょをもらってから行きます。本当とうにすみません。

Nguyen: Good morning, it’s Nguyen. I’m sorry, the train has stopped, so I’ll be about thirty minutes late. Leader: All right. Come carefully. Nguyen: Yes. I’ll get a delay certificate at the station and then come. I’m really sorry.

And asking for a day off a week before:

グエン:すみません、来週の金曜日、市役所しやくしょに行く用事があるので、休んでもいいでしょうか。
リーダー:金曜日ですね。いいですよ。でも、あまり人がいないので、午後だけ来られますか。
グエン:はい、午後は来られます。

Nguyen: Excuse me, next Friday I have to go to the city office, so may I take the day off? Leader: Friday, OK. That’s fine. But we won’t have many people, so can you come just in the afternoon? Nguyen: Yes, I can come in the afternoon.

New kanji: 用, 悪, 止, 通, 道

用 (use; business) is in 用事 (ようじ, something you have to do) and 用意 (ようい, preparation). 悪 is 悪い (わるい, bad). 止 is 止まる (とまる, to stop) and 止める (とめる, to stop something; to park); 中止 (ちゅうし) means cancelled. 通 is 通る (とおる, to pass), 通う (かよう, to commute; to attend) and 通勤きん (つうきん, commuting). 道 (みち) is a road or way; 歩道 (ほどう) is the pavement.

Common mistakes

  • No な after a noun: 雨ので ✗ → 雨なので ✓.
  • だ before ので: 雨だので ✗ → 雨なので ✓.
  • Using のに for a reason: 電車が止まったのに、遅おくれます ✗ → 止まったので ✓.
  • Using から for an excuse to a manager: it is not wrong, but ので sounds more polite.
  • Mixing up 止まる (the train stops) and 止める (you stop or park something): ここに車を止めないでください.

How to practise

  • Write what you would say on the phone if your train stopped this morning, with 〜ので.
  • Write two sentences with 〜のに about something that surprised you in Japan.
  • Write 用, 悪, 止, 通 and 道 on the worksheet and do the fill-in exercises.

Study options

Vocabulary

Vocabulary list
JapaneseReadingRomajiMeaningType
止まりますとまりますtomarimasuto stop (something stops)Verb
止めますとめますtomemasuto stop (something); to parkVerb
通りますとおりますtōrimasuto pass (through)Verb
通いますかよいますkayoimasuto commute; to attend regularlyVerb
通勤きんつうきんtsūkincommuting (to work)Noun
道みちmichiroad; wayNoun
用事ようじyōjisomething to do; errandNoun
悪いわるいwaruibadi-Adjective
具合ぐあいが悪いぐあいがわるいguai ga waruito feel unwellExpression
遅おくれますおくれますokuremasuto be lateVerb
間まに合あいますまにあいますma ni aimasuto be in timeVerb
〜ので〜ので-nodebecause; so (polite, objective)Expression
〜のに〜のに-nonialthough; even thoughExpression
遅延証明書ちえんしょうめいしょちえんしょうめいしょchien shōmeishodelay certificate (from a railway)Noun
中止ちゅうしchūshicancellation; called offNoun

Grammar

Plain form+ので (Noun / な-adj+なので)

because …; so … (polite, objective)

Softer than から and the best choice for excuses and requests: 止まったので, 悪いので, 雨なので.

Examples

  1. 電車が止まったので、遅おくれます。

    でんしゃがとまったので、おくれます。

    Densha ga tomatta node, okuremasu.

    The train has stopped, so I’ll be late.

  2. あしたは用事があるので、休んでもいいですか。

    あしたはようじがあるので、やすんでもいいですか。

    Ashita wa yōji ga aru node, yasunde mo ii desu ka.

    I have something to do tomorrow — may I take the day off?

  3. 雨なので、歩いて行きます。

    あめなので、あるいていきます。

    Ame na node, aruite ikimasu.

    It’s raining, so I’ll walk (instead of cycling).

Plain form+のに (Noun / な-adj+なのに)

although …; even though …

The result is unexpected; the speaker often sounds disappointed. Not for your own excuses.

Examples

  1. 急いだのに、間まに合あいませんでした。

    いそいだのに、まにあいませんでした。

    Isoida noni, ma ni aimasen deshita.

    Although I hurried, I didn’t make it.

  2. 日曜日なのに、仕事です。

    にちようびなのに、しごとです。

    Nichiyōbi na noni, shigoto desu.

    It’s Sunday, but I have to work.

〜けど / 〜が

but …; (softening a request)

けど is casual, が polite. After 〜んです they soften a request, which can be left unsaid.

Examples

  1. この店は高いですが、おいしいです。

    このみせはたかいですが、おいしいです。

    Kono mise wa takai desu ga, oishii desu.

    This restaurant is expensive, but it’s good.

  2. あのう、ちょっと具合ぐあいが悪いんですけど…。

    あのう、ちょっとぐあいがわるいんですけど…。

    Anō, chotto guai ga warui n desu kedo…

    Um, I’m not feeling very well …

Plain form+し、〜し

… and … (and so) — several reasons

Lists reasons and suggests there are more. も often appears with it.

Examples

  1. この道は暗くらいし、車も多おおいし、夜は歩かないほうがいいです。

    このみちはくらいし、くるまもおおいし、よるはあるかないほうがいいです。

    Kono michi wa kurai shi, kuruma mo ōi shi, yoru wa arukanai hō ga ii desu.

    This road is dark and busy, so you’d better not walk here at night.

  2. この寮りょうは駅から近いし、安いし、いいですよ。

    このりょうはえきからちかいし、やすいし、いいですよ。

    Kono ryō wa eki kara chikai shi, yasui shi, ii desu yo.

    This dormitory is close to the station and cheap — it’s good.

Kanji

Select a kanji to see its readings, stroke count and example words.

  • 用use; business
    On’yomi
    ヨウ
    Kun’yomi
    もち(いる)
    Strokes
    5

    Example words

    • 用事 ようじ errand; something to do
    • 用意 ようい preparation
    • 使用中 しようちゅう in use; occupied
  • 悪bad
    On’yomi
    アク、オ
    Kun’yomi
    わる(い)
    Strokes
    11

    Example words

    • 悪い わるい bad
    • 悪口 わるぐち saying bad things about someone
    • 最悪 さいあく the worst
  • 止to stop
    On’yomi
    シ
    Kun’yomi
    と(まる)、と(める)
    Strokes
    4

    Example words

    • 止まる とまる to stop
    • 止める とめる to stop; to park
    • 中止 ちゅうし cancellation
  • 通to pass; to commute
    On’yomi
    ツウ、ツ
    Kun’yomi
    とお(る)、とお(す)、かよ(う)
    Strokes
    10

    Example words

    • 通る とおる to pass
    • 通う かよう to commute; to attend
    • 通勤 つうきん commuting
  • 道road; way
    On’yomi
    ドウ、トウ
    Kun’yomi
    みち
    Strokes
    12

    Example words

    • 道 みち road; way
    • 歩道 ほどう pavement
    • 北海道 ほっかいどう Hokkaido

Practice quiz

Choose one answer for each question, then press “Check answer”. Nothing is saved or sent.

Question 1 of 10Complete: 電車が止まった ___ 、遅おくれます。 (polite reason)
Question 2 of 10Complete: 雨 ___ 、タクシーで行きます。
Question 3 of 10What does 急いだのに、間まに合あいませんでした mean?
Question 4 of 10Which is the best thing to say to your manager?
Question 5 of 10Complete: この道は暗くらい ___ 、車も多おおい ___ 、夜は歩きません。
Question 6 of 10A coworker says すみません、ちょっと用事があるんですけど…. What do they mean?
Question 7 of 10Which sentence means “Please don’t park here”?
Question 8 of 10How is 通います read?
Question 9 of 10How is 用事 read?
Question 10 of 10Which kanji means “road”?

0 of 10 answered

Frequently asked questions

から or ので — which should I use with my manager?

Both are correct, but ので sounds softer and more objective, so it is the better choice for excuses and requests at work. から is fine with friends and for your own opinions.

Is のに rude?

Not rude, but it often shows disappointment or a complaint. Use it to describe surprises (にちようびなのに、しごとです), not as a reason in your own excuses.

What should I do when my train stops on the way to work?

Call your workplace as early as you can, say why and how late you will be (でんしゃがとまったので、さんじゅっぷんぐらいおくれます), and ask whether you need a delay certificate. Many railways hand them out at the station or on their website.

Can I end a sentence with けど?

Yes. Ending with けど or が leaves the request unsaid and sounds soft: ちょっと用事があるんですけど…. The listener understands what you want.

Keep going

Continue to the next level

Comfortable with these lessons? Move on to JLPT N3 and keep building your Japanese one step at a time.

Start N3 lessons